Hello everyone

[Lillie]

Hi! my name is Lillie
I'm new to this site
I was browsing the net about mix mariages
and I discovered it
my husband is algerian and also lives there for now
I live in new york. we've been married for 4 yrs already
for some reason I think he doesn't wanna come

I go to algeria every year but I want him to come and live with me
I also speak french because of my dad

[Al-khiyal]

salam, mar7aba wa bienvenue, ya Lillie,

I hope that you'll enjoy your time with us.

You evidently have a lot of patience, insha'allah you will get a good resolution to your situation.

[Bent_Bladi]

Welcome Lillie

Hope everything works out okay

[Sonja]

yayyy welcome ^^ hope you enjoy staying in this forum

[nesreen]

Hello Lillie

I dont understand your situation , really . you have been married for 4 years but he is happy living in Algeria leaving you alone in the US . something is not right here and you must confront him and talk openly ? did he give you the option of living with him in Algeria ? did you discuss this BEFORE marriage ? so why marry if he stays on another continent leaving you alone ? I think you have to have an open discussion and get things clearer . what happens if you fall pregnant , is the child going to have a LONG distance Dad ??

Im sorry about your situation and i m not sure i understand the long distance marriage you have . I hope you can sort it out ASAP . Love .

[YazzyCherry]

awww thats a really hard place to be
and i get why u might not want to completely remove urself for the place that you've always lived in so i dont see why its you that has to move
he should still think about making sacrifices for you, i mean algeria doesnt have that strong an effect for him not to want to leave it. how about both of u do the visiting it once a year but together? he moves and goes back and forth lol

how have u had the sabr to live 4 years like this?
must be a killer!

[Lillie]

I didn't see the time flies
I mean every day you think something gonna happen
and when you look back you say to yourself 1, 2, 3, years
that's when I realized I was wasting time.