In love with Algerian guy! help

[zaytun]

I am a divorced muslim sister living in Canada, I'm in love with an Algerian guy. Although I don't know the culture of Algerian men, I am thinking of taking the first step to approach him. Please (anybody) give me some ideas of what to do. Thank you

[This message has been edited by zaytun (edited 05 April 2000).]

[yahikarim]

hello zaytun how are you ? ihop you well!
thank you for your reply. how do you expect
tha we can help you? if you dident give eney detail. are yuo divorst from that man and you want to get back' or you just divorst sister you in love with that man . remind you tha muslim in general' and algerian in particular, dont even think of resism.

[Abelissima]

An Algerian and I have been in love for 4 years...but now he doesn't want to go on with our relationship any longer because I am not a muslim...

[yahikarim]

dear zaytun
hello zaytun i hope you well' I am sorry I dident read you message well the last time'
I know now you in love with this gay' you dont know how to aprosh to hime'very easey'
just let him know you interisting in him' by
eney how' and let him give you his answer
the same as eney body els'
I wish the best.

[Algerian_Mafia]

Dear Zaytun,
Algerian men aren't racist, i've been with many other races and I know others who have aswell.
Just make the first move,he may like you, he may not, which ever its not the end of the world.
Theres many other Algerian men about and to be truefull, you're better off without an Algerian cos most of us are crazy.(only joking)
Anyway, good luck, tell us all the outcome!!

[zaytun]

Hi Abelissima
He knew about your faith for four years right, did he ever told you to convert? If he did not, then I think he was not serious about the relationship, because the only loop hole he could come up with is that you are not a muslim after all that time.
My neighbour was in tha same situation, her relationship lasted for ten years and they even lived together and had a son. She was willing to become a muslim and asked me to explain to her about Islam. I did give her some highlights about Islam, furthermore I went to the guy and asked him why he didn't marry her when he says he loves her, and his reply was she is not a muslim and and it is word of mouth if she says she will convert.

So you see, this guys could have said we are not from the same faith and we cannot have any relationship in the first place.

Take care

[zaytun]

Hi Algerian Mafia & Karim
Thank you very much guys for your advice. I approached the guy and it was not all that bad. He was cool about it and he says he feels good about it. We talked few times and so far so good.

Thanks a lot.

Zaytun