Looking for an Algerian Girl in London

[Bo_Selecta]

Hi everyone,

can anyone advise to where to find a decent bent l'ebled, i live in Hendon (london).
thanks

[Khokom]

Ya Bo_Selecta ettaqi moulaak. Nas rahi tmout, khawatna yuqtaloon wa yudhbahoon, ou nta t'hawes ala lebnaat?

K.

[Bo_Selecta]

Allah ouma adjalna minaelmoutakine, ya akhi, there is no malice behind my advert. iam only looking for a decent woman to get married. what's wrong with that brother?

[Khokom]

But thats not the way to get married kho. You cant ask people to tell you of a particular place where to find "bnaat leblaad". Talk to your mum maybe she can spot a girl in a wedding party, or some community gathering of some sort, or when you go on holiday to leblaad.

You cant just wake up one day and think "ok today I am going to such and such place and I am goin to get meself bent leblaad and marry her".

Also your post bro, it gives the wrong impression.

Take care,

Khokom.

[Bo_Selecta]

you know what they say about assumption kho. what i gather from your statement is that you assumed that i just woke up this morning and decided to get married. it couldn't be further from the truth, i have tried everything there is, i even went to l'ebled 4 times in past 2 years but unfortunetly it didn't work. what can i do more? iam only asking for help from my fellow algerian and if they can't fair enough.

[Sminette]

It's true in a way ...girls get freaky ...when a guy walks up to them and say : I want to get married...Well ..yeah we all want to...but there are ways of setting things...
My friend met this guy for the first time...she was telling me that he was ok for a first meeting and she wanted to get to know him...next meeting ..he brought her aring saying : you're the one ..let's just get married....She never wanted to meet him ever after...
I don't blame the guy..( weld familia) a bit desperate I would say but hey....
As for her I don't blame her either...she felt trapped ..

[Khokom]

No I didnt assume anything, your post gave out the wrong message. I understand fully what your situation is. It's good that you want to get married. You, me and many other brothers in this forum want to get married, but its not easy.

So insha'Allah we must continue to do dua and have patience, marriage is not simple. I wish you the best kho, rabbi yaftah aleek nsha'Allah.

Khokom.