New Muslim man

[1079239]

I am looking to find a best friend first of all, if things go well and if we can over see the differences of cultures which should not be difficult through our hearts, we will move to a more serious relationship and give Allah his will upon our lives, inchallah!
I live in the USA
Ask me about me and we will learn from each other as we go along.

By the way I am Oscar!

[Al-khiyal]

Salam,

Does this announcement mean that you've given up on your 8-month online romance with the Algérienne who, one month ago, you were 'crazy about' and planning to marry and are now looking for another one ?

[1079239]

She lied to me from day one and I hate dis-honesty, she was a farce all along so my feelings are erased from my heart and mind because she was a lie!! she made me believe she was someone else and she was never honest about it! it is a long story, how do you know about this!
Thank you

[1079239]

If you would like to hear all the details of this lie I will be happy to reveal all of it to you!
She lives in ************************* (location deleted by Al-khiyal) and she is a ******************** (occupation deleted by Al-khiyal) named *********** (name deleted by Al-khiyal) I hope that that at least this is her name!!! friend in Live Mocha revealed to me that her photo was that of a french newscaster and not her, so for 8 months she lied to me about this and who knows about what else she lied about! Have you ever been lied to this deep? probably not! she made me believe she was this girl,

*Link to name deleted by Al-khiyal*

she is a big liar and a farce that played with my emotions for 8 months so yes I am looking for someone who is honest and that is not a fraud, someone that fears Allah! not like her that showed me so many things about Islam but lied!! is this enough for you/ or would you prefer to reveal all the details of this 8 month lie!!!

[Al-khiyal]

Salam encore,

A few points. A Muslim generally responds to 'salam' with 'wa alaikum assalam' or 'wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatu Allah'. This is a very basic thing that Muslims learn very early.

In your haste to 'name and shame' someone, you evidently forgot many things - assuming, that is, that you ever knew them.

Second point - nobody, not you, not anybody, comes to this forum and starts spraying the personal details of other people about the place. Such appalling behaviour and lack of respect for the rights of others will not be tolerated here.

Third point - In your first post on this thread I edited and corrected your misspelling of 'Allah'. You may imagine how painful it is for Muslims to see such an error made.

Fourth point. Your bitterness and anger towards this woman, whether real or not, is little more than 'a story' here. And in every quarrel there are at least two versions of events, so spare us any incontinent tirade against a woman who is not here to offer her viewpoint or defend herself.

Fifth point. Anyone reading this thread is going to form some kind of impression. If you want to present yourself as some kind of embittered victim, that's your prerogative, but most people using this site are savvy enough to work out what is genuine about 'cyber romance stories' and what isn't.

When exactly did you become a 'new Muslim man' and how come you haven't got to the lessons about backbiting and forgiveness yet ?

You're an American 'hunting online' for an Algerian woman. People can form their own impressions of why, and how wise, that might be, compared, for example, to looking around you in your own country, but whatever the case, we are very protective about women here - even those who are not members of the site.

Sixth point. Get over it - if it ever actually happened, as you describe it, at all.

[zinouba]

khouya Rabbi yehdik ...