feelin sad....

[Florence]

Hello, so now he manipulates me to call him. I caught on after a bit. He's not serious about marriage after all...so anyway why is that some men are just play with women's emotions or life? It sure was an experience that i won't fall for .......then again I'm a risk taker. florence

[HOUDA-K]

Hello Florence,

It is a sign of spiritual health for you to feel sad at this time. This is the right barometer of your situation. The emotional attachment to your boyfriend can be compared to the story of the man that nestled a viper in his breast and cherished it until it bit him. As he lay dying he asked the viper, Why did you harm me when I only took care of you? The viper replied, It's my nature, I cannot help it.

Your soul is warning you that this relationship is harmful. However, it would take a simple act to change vipers . Namely, to bring this relationship into marriage in plain view.

Unfortunately, his intentions are murky and self-centred, do NOT continue to suffer under this burden because its constituents are betrayal as you said.

Come on Florence, Win yourself long-term peace and stability rather than jeopardize it for short-lived, destructive passions.

Kind Regards
HOUDA~k

[nardinef]

Well said Houda! I have nothing to add but:
"It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all". Good luck Florence.

[le_Solitaire]

It is almost midnight ..., just checking online i found ur post. at this time alot memories came to my mind ...you said ,he changed his mind, how do you know that?
may be he is thinking the same way about you..may be you are playing game with him and not the way around...
i went through similair experience it was devastating to me..
i advice people when they are in relationship is better to get married..
becareful of woman who has male friends. and any woman who told you she wants to have male friends or has already a male friens she is bad woman keep away from her...
take my advice.
another advice if you want to get married go to elbled and find one ..

[HOUDA-K]

Peace and blessings all.

le_Solitaire,

No I’m sorry BUT I totally disagree with you concerning your last sentence. Why should a man go to”elbled” to find a spouse for marriage ?

I don’t have male friends, simple because there is NO FREE MIXING in Islam. So please do not judge all women by your experience. Because if we all did that we would not marry from our own culture.

Wa Salam

[Florence]

Hello, Well I am 5'1 115 lbs, I live in Alaska and I plan to take a trip to Morocco for 2 weeks. Anyone have been t here? Anyways I plan to go in December ... Sincerely Kimmie

[Florence]

Hello to ALL Algerian men, I'd like to move on in my life and get to meet Algerian man. One who'll be my best friend, and build on the foundation with TRUST..and allow it to go where the heart goes..Sincerely Tungngasuk..