Horror stories about Algerian men

[Bent_Bladi]

hola, heidi....

wow --- from what you said, it sounds like he doesn't deserve you... I hope he'll come around and come back though.

One tip - guys like to chase after girls, but don't like it when girls chase after them (when they want something more serious). So maybe if you acted like you don't care then he might come back

[ana_bessah2oo2]

i want to leave my algerian husband !!! He's a good man though.

[Al-khiyal]

If he's in Algeria then looking at your IP address I'd say that you have left him

[Sassy]

Please someone offer me some advice.I have been married to an algerian guy for nine years,we dont have children.The problem is he does not work, i think he has worked 6months in total in all of our marriage.All he does is smoke hash day in day out whilst i go to work.He is totally paranoid accusing me of the most horrid things.
Im not saying im an angel ,i have a bad temper but im constantly on edge ,all i want is a decent man who will work and take care of his responabilitys.Anyway there has been some violence in the marriage but a couple of weeks ago he grabbed me by the neck and almost strangled me.I was terrified.I dont love him although i feel sorry for him as he depends on me for money and stuff.also his family are so good too,they do not knoe things as he tells them he is working,they dont know anything about us as we live in europe and there in Algeria.
Im 27 young enough to start again,Please help me should i leave him?

[KENZA GIRL]

to sassy,
Leave your husband, he doesn't love you, he is USELESS. He is just using you, thats not a man, he is a disgrace.
Most ALgerian men have no respect for western women. They use them to get residency 'visa' then they either leave them strait away or search for an excuse to leave them etc. Then they remarry with an algerian girl.

[Cheba_Mami]

Sassy, i am sorry to hear this girl, he does not love or respect you. And he lies to his family. All he cares for is a good image. a false image. A false man. Two things you can do:
1. leave him, it is the best thing to do. am sure of that.

2. Work on this marriage if you find it worth it.....tell him, explain him how it should be, talk. Try to help him to stay clean/ get him off his addiction with professional help. Some men do change if they see life can be better. Chances are really small and a man can and only will change if he loves or respect you...

sorry girl, May God bless you.

[Sassy]

Hi all,
Thank you so much for the replys,I have decided to take the second option and work on my marriage I have showed my husband your replys and sat him down and told him if things dont change we will head to the lawyers office to start divorce proceedings.After a lot of talking,soul searching and crying on both parts were slowly but surely working things out in fact my husband is working now and earning a salary and is encouraging me to go back to college to complete my masters.
Were looking on it as a fresh start and hopefully INSHA,ALLAH it will work out well.By the way guys when i married my husband he already had his French Passport,his mum is french.I think i could have had these problems with any man.I also think people these days give up too easily on there marriage.Well who am i too judge.Salam for now...
Thanks again