Foreign girls : Attention

[duneprincess786]

Yes this also happened to a family friend...they were having an arranged marriage and she came all the way from India, and when they got married, about a week later she took all his money, EVERYTHING, and just disappeared. So you are right, nedjnma, its not only algerian men. or algerian women. it happens a lot. And again you are right- all countries have good and bad people.

[El_Djazaïr]

Yes this also happened to a family friend...they were having an arranged marriage and she came all the way from India, and when they got married, about a week later she took all his money, EVERYTHING, and just disappeared. So you are right, nedjnma, its not only algerian men. or algerian women. it happens a lot. And again you are right- all countries have good and bad people.

She came from india to take his money
As they say ,that trip sure worthed

[Sweeter_Pea]

It is no wonder that men hide their wallets At least the smart ones

[myriame]

i think the whole deal is fate, sometimes u gotta just do what u think is right sometimes its the best choice u've ever made and sometimes its the worst choice, but life is life and u live with the consequences............i wanna marry an algerian for sure inshallah, and hes probably gona be from algeria cuz tere arent any algerians here where i live except some old guys in there late 30's who r married to canadian women, hopefully i can meet someone who really wants to marry me and not to leave the country....b.c u'd be surprised at how many young ppl in algeria wanna leave the country any way......................

[RVega]

We at times do things that we should not and then regret them, but we must learn from them and then move on. Sometimes we get our heart broken and we get them broken over and over and still we must move on. We must first put our faith in God and allow him to open up our eyes and our minds to make correct decisions on whom we love and whom loves us. We can't always be correct and we can' t always be perfect, but we must try to always be honest and not lie to those we meet either online or in person. I am inlove with an Algerian guy that I met online and we seem to be doing pretty good, but we haven't yet met so then in reality we don't know each other. Yet I feel as if we are meant for each other and he seems quite honest, but I must also be cautious of everyone because not everyone tells the truth about themselves, I know because I have met those people in person.

I am American and wish to one day meet my Algerian bf and see how things progress from there on. We have spoken about marriage and it seems so unreal yet so promising.
God bless each and everyone one of you.

[nesian_wahine]

I agree with you rvega, and with other points made by earlier posts on this topic. That there are many men who marry just for papers/green card/ p.r and many that are genuine and aren't full of crap like the rest. There are women to who use and abuse, and make a mockery of marriage, and this will make one weary and watchful. I have been "burnt" so many times. And one time in particular I found a guy that only wanted to marry for residency, I had to find out by immigration he had a wife tucked away and four children and a heavy police record also for assault, theft and violence against women. But life goes on, only broken hearted, but we start again. I am currently "online dating" a wonderful guy in Algeria. His family have gotten to know me, and we all talk on webcam (lol!) and everyday we ring each other and I speak to his mum and sisters and brothers. Maybe that is rare because i am also of a totally different culture and non muslim. But his family are tremendously accepting of me, and my family also, which is hard for my family with where I am originally from. We are from different cultures, up bringing, religon, but that isn't important, what is important is that we have the same views and values, share the same ideas, he has become my best friend and I his. We both believe in God and in honesty, love, faith, hope and most of all respect each other greatly and our independance, our individuality that makes us who we are, never wanting to change each other. We established earlier on what we wanted from this and we will work towards it together. I would love the opportunity to live in algeria, my man has no desire to come to new zealand unless it made me happy, here there or anywhere as long as we are together. And it is a pity that it is for those few (men and women) that spoil the blessings of marriage for papers, for others that really do have faith in it and are really trying to make things work. Alarm bells ring of course, doubt can set in and spoil the realationship. But having faith and praying sincerely will guide you..

[duneprincess786]

I dont trust online relationships AT ALL. I was in one with a moroccan guy in morocco, and i was SO totally in love with him and was so serious about him, and he played the part SO WELL i really give him an A+ for that, but he turned out to be a player and i just CAN'T believe i fell for it. I feel very stupid. And ive seen my aunt go through guy after guy in online dating, and they all turn out to be players, perverts, jerks, etc...u get my drift. So online relationships have become a no-no for me. And btw, i didnt go LOOKING for that moroccan guy- i had a website and he saw it and we started communicating-not a dating site. There were no intentions on my part to look for anyone, it just happened. I DO want to find an algerian guy, tho, inshallah. I pray it happens. Ciao.