What is Marriage?

[SonyaM]

I'm yet to open my eyes then, have only been married 6 weeks!!!

[amalgamate]

aaaww Well, congratulations then Sonya! Yazou says marriage is beautiful. Keep that in mind. May you have a blessed life together!

[SonyaM]

Thank you so much! I am very happy and i am looking forward to my life with my hubbie. Xx

[sania]

For a long time I used to wonder why a love affair becomes sour after marriage.
One has to analyse the psychology behind the attitudinal change after marriage.

Before marriage, the togetherness is brought by love and attraction.
After marriage it is by law and necessity.

Marriage makes the couple to take the spouse for granted,
legally binding for the husband to provide finance and the wife to provide sex and homely services.

It becomes an uneasy and unwilling but ncessary togetherness.

Unless of course the element of true love and sacrifice arising out of that love,
takes the upper hand than selfish motives and actions.
This of course takes prolonged interactions and living together to achieve.

That is why marriages in older times were more stable, satifying and sacred.

Yes, sacred rathar than legal.

In olden times,marriages were sanctified and certified more by religion and less by law.
Nowadays it is vice-versa.

[amalgamate]

very true sania, very true.

[Bent_Bladi]

well said sania

[sania]

Hi BB, the girl in your pic looks like Wahida Rehman, in younger ages.

Very beautiful.

Wish it is you