My Algerian boyfriend - is he worth it?

[Bent_Bladi]

it's nice to be nice, just don't let people take advantage of you... these guys are FAMOUS for that

[cat75]

thanks for your time.. i know what to do now.. i wont pursue this relationship..

[Bent_Bladi]

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[Cheba_Mami]

Hello Cat75, i am really really sorry to hear your story. Many girls/women from all over the world fall for this trick. These type of guys- who are not only Algerian by the way- seems kind, helpless and they need you. They definately need you!!! for the money and other things you can GIVE!!! and as long they can TAKE. and you are worth so much much more. Don't you deserve a true relationship? From someone who does not depend on you? Someone who would never lie to you? Someone who does not control you and ASK from you but knows to GIVE you also something in return? You might think i tell you things without knowing.... but lady, i know it too well. Unfortunately i do.

No, you are not the most stupid woman, a lot of women fall for this, really. it is natural. And these men know it too well, they abuse your sensitiveness and your generousity. And if you do not watch out, he will abuse your heart, body, soul and life too. to the fullest.

Abusive men are everywhere. it is your lifetask to stay away from these bad people.

Pleas run, while you still can. I really hope you will not fall for his false charms. Save your life. You are in full control of iyour own life NOW. then pleas act wise too.

this is an expensive but good lesson and it is not too late to run.

my goodluck wishes.

Cheba Mami.

[cat75]

Thank you Cheba Mami.. i know not all Algerian men are like that/... there are good and bad everywhere...

He just seems so nice and caring.. its a real contradiction.. its so scary.. but i will keep away

[Cheba_Mami]

You're welcome, bad is everywhere yes. and goodluck with finding a GOOD partner that REALLY CARES for YOU.

Every person has some qualities and of abusive men the qualities are that they can be very charming, kind, romantic, nice, caring etc. while it is allll drama. big drama. you will see when they change style like actors. they play with someones life. and all ladies.... all the ladies buy the drama like it is real.

i can't judge no one from here but ALL LADIES BE AWARE FOR FAKE MEN.
and for men, there are some mean evil women too. i have not forgotten that catagory.

you will be fine, because you have a choice today to leave forgood. no matter how romantic, don't fall for bad guys.

[Mayissa]

Couldn't agree more...........but please remember as Cheba Mami mentioned be cautious of people the world over despite of religion, creed, sex, race or age.

Ma Salama