My Algerian boyfriend - is he worth it?

[cat75]

Hello all

I need a word of advice - i met this Algerian guy for just 10 mins when i was on vacation in Thailand. He was working there. We exchanged phone numbers and in a few weeks his contract expired and he had to go back to Algiers. Before going back to Algiers, he called me and asked for money as he said his visa had expired.. it was not a lot he asked for and i sent him the money anyway (I was a bit disconcerted though).. it was roughly EUR 300.

A few months later we planned to meet in Morocco.. However 5 days before my departure, he asked for some more money as he said that the immigration in Morocco would request to see if he has sufficient funds. I sent him the money anyway approx EUR 300 again!! (but I was still disconcerted)
He told me he would return the money when we meet. However, when we met, he said he had to give the money as "bribe" given that his passport did not meet the 8 months validity time required and only had 6 months validity time (which is the norm)

After further questioning in Morocco, he admitted that he lied and that he needed the money for a return ticket home from Thailand as it would have been a dishonour for him to ask the money from his family. I discovered other small lies lateron.

He is also extremely possessive and extremely jealous (he would picks fights in public should a man slightly even look in my direction). He also puts a lot of pressure for us to get married immediately. In just a few days, he infomred his whole family about us. And insists that I should bear him 3 children

Whilst i do have some affection for him, I cannot help but think maybe he wants to get out of Algeria. When I suggested that maybe i can find a job in Algiers, he immediately told me Algeria is not a good place to live and that my country is very beautiful.

He is jobless at the moment and makes no effort looking for a job.. Its been like this for months.. he keeps lying around on the beach, borrowing money from others to call me or to travel on vacation to Cherchell and he finds silly excuses all the time for not getting a job. I am starting to think he is lazy and wants the easy way out.
.. i know i should leave him as he is not even educated and we cannot even comminucate properly. At least if he made that effort to earn a living, i could have helped him but if he doesnt want to help himself, is it my responsibility? What do i do? Please help me.I need your advice. Does he really love me? or is it my money (I have a very good job and he knows it) that he is after?

[Al-khiyal]

[Mayissa]

Wake up and smell the coffee

Unreal........don't believe............

[Bent_Bladi]

don't waste ur time girl

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[cat75]

unreal????

[Mayissa]

If I meet you for 10 minutes will you give me 300 euros?

[cat75]

ha ha ha.. well i get your point... it all depends on what happened in those 10 mins.. i dunno.. i felt sorry for him.. he is not rich and i thought he was in trouble so i helped out.. but when he asked again.. then i knew i am probably the stupidest person on this planet!!!