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    heidivcg is offline Registered User
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    Unhappy I need advice !! HEIDI

    Hello Everybody Salam Alikum!!

    I want ask something and I would like an advice, So I'm Mexican woman, separated from an Algerian man, so my question is: I'm separated but not divorced from an Algerian man, but he doesn't want coming back with me, but the problem is that I'm I still married, so in 1 year I' will get divorce, but I want to ask if I get divorce is it true that any arabic muslim guy is not going to married me??? somebody told me: the arabic muslim guys they won't married me because I was married with arabic muslim man, that is true?????? I would like to be married again with muslim and arabic special Algerian, and also I'm muslim too, so I hope somebody can answer my question because I worried.

    Thank you. HEIDI

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    Felicity is offline Registered User
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    I'm unsure why you couldn't get married again? As Muslims believe in divorce I don't think anything would stop another arab marrying you? I think as long as your ex husband doesn't bad mouth you to the whole of Algeria, then there would be no problem. If he did bad mouth you however (I sincerely doubt he could bad mouth you to EVERY algerian man), that would be a problem.

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    Bent_Bladi is offline Moderator
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    the people that say that kind of stuff are IG.NOR.ANT.!! don't listen to them!! besides you wouldn't want to marry the kind of "muslim arab" man that thinks like that... they don't last long and 100% of them are LOOOOSERS!!

    Good luck heidi - inshaAllah Allah will join you with your naseeb and he'll treat you right and give you the life you deserve


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    left2000 is offline Registered User
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    Asalam alaikum,

    Worries and doubts are all from the Shaitan, you should pray to Allah 'Istikhara prayers' and ask for your 'kismat'. what's meant to be for you will always be inchallah. No one can tell you otherwise.

    Getting married again after the divorce is in nobody's hands, but Allah. I think only the non educated people will say 'you can't get married again'.

    Yes, I admit, some of our Algerian brothers have some cultural values, which they can not leave apart, but so many others will see things from a true muslim point of view, and this is the kind of man you need.

    I wish you the best of luck, and please don't let yourself stressed about what people say. It's your life and you deserve to be happy..

    Salam from left2000

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    heidivcg is offline Registered User
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    Thank you everybody for your advice, I appreciate so much, Inshallah everything is going to be ok.

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