A new chapter, and he is Algerian

[Sociopath]

Don't get married you will regret it, only a couple of people told me this and I never knew what they were talking about until after I got married..that is the honest truth.

[caz100]

Hi
I had a similar experience whilst visiting Dubai. I met a lovely Algerian man who lives in Dubai and he said very similar things, I love you, you are beautiful and so on. As with you i took it all with a pinch of salt and a laugh. He pursued me all week and with a friend I met him and his friend and he continued to say how he loved me and wished for us to marry. I, like you, said love takes time and could not believe that this was his true feelings. I had concerns that he was after a rich Brit and so made it clear this was not the case, I was worried he thought British women jump into bed with men that say such things and made it very clear I was not this type of woman. Since returning to the UK he continues to send me messages of love and asking me to live in Dubai. I would love to live in Dubai, although not for him and explained about the difficulty in getting Jobs in Dubai and my career. I am visiting again in a week and he continues to pursue me but I am really not sure what to do when i visit. I really don't know if it is genuine or if he is after something. I am concerned about the difference in culture and his view of women. What can I say I feel your confusion! Prob not much help for you. I would say though, meet him, what's the worst, you don't like him and you don't take it further. You have been up front with him and made no promises, nothing ventured nothing gained. Let me know. Any thoughts anyone!

[Cheba_Mami]

Hi,

Strange, why you let him run after you when his view on women concern you?

That should say enough! Real love requires trust , respect, friendship and a lot of common goals/views of life/love etc.

Ask yourself very clearly, use your head. the answer is within you always.

This is not good at all.

Good luck

[Al-khiyal]