In love with my Algerian neighbour

[FunGirl_London]

My best friend called me today with a tricky situation, and i'm sharing with u guys and girls!!

She said to me before that she fancied her algerian neighbour who moved in recently to the same building where she is.

Now she is totally head over heels!!!! and i'm really worried for her mental well being.. and need to advise her on what to do... and of course too scared to lead her to a heart break .. as it has already been broken enough lol

The main problem here (and off course there should always be a problem in love!!) he gets alots of visits from a particular girl... and that girl is Gawriya...

so the question is... does it matter? should she take that into consideration?
she says that she deserves him more than the cow (as she likes to call her now!!!)

he smiled at her a couple of times and opened her the door on one occasion...but should she give him a green light or the red card?

now if yes she should be with him... just tell me what she should do to seduce him further?

Girls plz i want sympathy and real advice coz it's a matter of life or death!!!!!!!!
N u guys plzzzz if any of you is the neighbour... plz stop seeing that girl before she gets stabbed on her way upstairs to you..lol .... for the rest of you , pls ask all ur friends if they have an arab neighbour and if yes...to take care of her

Merci ...

[BACK2MYROOTS]

HI FunGirl_London

Your posting raises many questions that need to be answered before considering any answers or solutions to your problem.

First of all, how old are you and your friend? Secondly, I hope you're not serious about 'stabbing the other girl' or 'having her taken care of''. These sound like serious threats of "life and death" as you put it !

I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming that it's just 'youth talk' [exaggerated], but that you're serious about wanting to help your friend snare this 'Algerian Prince Charming'.

Thirdly, what makes you think that Algeria.com is the right place for the sort of tips you're looking for?

Come on FunGirl_London, just take it easy and allow the natural course of things to take place. This is about 'boy meets girl' stuff. There are no magic tips to be found here [ or are there??].

It's very sweet of you to want to help your friend, but there's not much you can do about it really. Tell your friend to cool down and take her time to get to know the guy and his circumstances before she makes a fool of herself.

Having said that, good luck!
Follow your instinct, though, and keep out of it as much as you can.

B2MR

[FunGirl_London]

WoW!!
thanx for the prompt reply...

you seem shaken by some comments that I made...and let me assure you that it was indeed "an exagerated espression of black humour" my nickname is FunGirl... Hi again...

My friend is 25 yo faaaaaar from being a teenager.. and that's making the story even more serious..

I found some members in this site to be very helpful and checked many other stories and comments... so where else should i seek advise from ?other than with my own sweet people?!!
N.B. ((algerian guys could especially be of great help.. if they disclose some of their complicated psychology and their preferred analogy in dealing with such a prob!! hehehehe))

Natural course of life takes care of many things in many places... in London somehow..SOBHANALLAH... you spend 20 years being neighbour to someone n u never get to say a whole sentence...

I BELIEVE IN : MAKE YOUR OWN LUCK HAPPEN.

(even suggested that she writes annonymous love notes and slides them under his door.... looool like in that movie of abdelhalim hafez . HOPE he won't sue her for blackmailing...hehehehe)

Hope I answered ur questions and added info to the next readers
keep replies coming ladies and gents...

xXx

Last N.B. I found myself secretly agreeing with my friend when she said that she deserves weld bladha... more then the Gawriya. *personal opinion et a debatre.

[Bent_Bladi]

1. what does gawriya mean heh?

2. If he's with someone else then she should just forget about it!

3. um... the end

[BACK2MYROOTS]

I didn't understand "gawrya" at first, then it clicked. It's 'guewriyya' , meaning 'French' ! Hell knows why we call the French 'guewry' and 'guewriyya' ! Say it aloud and it'll ring a bell, I think.

[Bent_Bladi]

um lol i still have never heard that before

[mohovitch]

I thought gawriya can be any european not necessarily french