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[sisab0616]

ħi,my name is sherry
i meet my bf on skype
he is good guy

but we have some thinking is different
he think i will be stupid wife
but i just think because i not live in algeria
so i really dont know here 's thinking

sometime i feel he want i be huouse wife
but i feel i looks like not
and said some thing
but he think im lazy

can tell me i should do what thing ?!!?

[BACK2MYROOTS]

sisab0616, why are you wth this guy if he is not taking you seriously? More importantly, why do you want to rush into a lifetime commitment with him if he is being 'funny' (not haha) with you? Take your time and think of all your options would be my advice for you.

[Desert winds]

hello -
you say you meet him on skype? is that some sort of internet thing? i dont mean to be rude but can you really trust those men you meet on the internet? you dont know who they really may be- i think there's a issue of your safety at risk... i think you should find alternative ways to seeking a man.
im sorry-

[Tipaza]

What you should do ?
Nothing. Let him go. You'll meet someone else and if he cares about you, he won't let you go.

(Ah les Algériens sont un peuple d'aventuriers !)

[Cheba_Mami]

Not a good idea for you.
Try to meet a real person in real life!
A man should never be unkind/disrespectful to you if he seriously wants to marry you.

[BACK2MYROOTS]

How long have you been with this guy sisab?
Silly question [edited minutes after posting], you're in Taiwan now, right?
If you want advice, you need to tell us a bit more about your situation.

[New_Friend]

Dear Sisab0616,

One word in your original "help" posting sends a strong "caution" alert to me. You wrote that sometimes he says you might be a "stupid" wife in the future. Please do not let this word just go in your ears, and then out, as if to pretend that he did not really say THAT word!

It is not a kind word....it is not loving...it is not in your best interests. But, as he said it, it IS possible that he really did mean it! And in that case, this is the kind of man who will NOT bring you happiness, will not make you feel loved and appreciated as a woman, and he will not be your best friend forever.

Many, many Algerian men are charming, attractive and seem so easy to draw near to....even if you only chat online or talk via skype and exchange "romantic" e-greetings and text messages and all the rest!

But for your own good, Sisab, let this one go. There are many, many more fish in the sea!

Happy new year to you, and all the best as you take care of yourself!

New_Friend, in "a.com"