The Bride and the In Laws in Algeria

[pendekar]

Assalamualaikum,
i'm a foreigner, married & had kids abroad, moved to algeria five yrs ago. My questions :_
- The relationship between The Bride and The In Laws, when it goes wrong or gone bad to worse, who is to be blame? the wife, the husband or the in laws.

need input to understand. its a very sensitive topic, but it is an unfortunate situation for most of the "ya ro sa" in algeria.

[Twilight]

Hi Pandekar!

Oh relations Bride/In Laws that's a topic

it's really different from family to another, but in major time it's the same problems....Algerian families have a lot in common...

There is an Algerian proverb which say: If the bride come along with the mother in Law, Satan'll enter paradise ( Loukan tetfahem la3djouza m3a kena youdkhoul Ibliss el jena )

So the important thing is to have a comprehensive husband who'll be on your side ... and try to keep respectful relations without being involved a lot (keep distance) and stay away from gossiping

[pendekar]

DEAR TWilight,
it was a genuine and sincere advice. I dont call it gossiping, i used to refer it as "women's politic".

[Twilight]

Thanks pendekar right "women's politic" sounds better