Algerian men

[anon13]

Hi

Do all algerian men have a very bad temper???

[lillyinlondon]

LOOOL what a dynamite question!!! Yes I would say from my experience that when sufficently aggravated they can be a exceedingly volatile lot! It depends on the individuals I suppose. What more can I say without running the risk of being virtually slaughtered like athe kibbiche at Eid ( the sacrificial lamb )

[djoneid]

Sorry to say that your question has no answer !!!! Can Algerian men be alike in everything ? That's the right question and the obvious answer is no !

[anon13]

well unfortunately I have to deal with the anger on a daily basis with sometimes not been spoken to for weeks over small trivial matters. Any advice anyone can give would be much appreciated

[Al-khiyal]

[Cheba_Mami]

well unfortunately I have to deal with the anger on a daily basis with sometimes not been spoken to for weeks over small trivial matters. Any advice anyone can give would be much appreciated

I am sorry to hear that dear Anon13, no not all men are like this, this is disrespectful behaviour.
My advice: Tell this unthankful creature when he is in a good mood that he is not a king (no that will make him angry) no tell him clearly that you are not happy with his behaviour. This is not what marriage is about. You are affected by it. He takes you for granted and expects you to do all his chores, cooking, cleaning etc.
Tell him you deserve respect, you are an equal human being.

Tell him to read the Quran clearly and lett the good words in his head about marriage and how to treat a woman GOOD (i would definately do that!)
Tell him when he is approacheble that YOU treat him good so he should treat YOU also good. Small matters, small DISCUSSIONS. no anger and disrespect. Cooling down is ok, bu tbad temper all the time? This is the thing you married for?

one more thing: Practise to become a STRONG women. Do not led your mood down when he is unhappy. Laugh, talk to family, dress up and feel good. Show that you are confident, with a good self esteem and tell him often kindly clearly and calmly that you deserved to be treated good. Do not pay lots of attention to him when he is angry. Go read, watch TV, clean, sing. Do everything that makes YOU happy. NEVER run behind him and never say sorry for the things you have not done wrong! If he sees that he can not control you he will respect you more. If he is a rotten apple he will get more angry, if he is worth it to stay married to he WILL REALIZE AND think and CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOUR.

and a last thing: WATCH OUT! that his behaviour will never get more disrespectful e.g. violent. IF HE EVER IS VIOLENT, RUN!!!
i am against divorcing but i am more against abuse and violence. be aware of more negative behaviour,

i wish you well, ISA you will.

Miss Chebba M.

[anon13]

Thank you for your kind advice. It has certainly put me more in a positive mood