Black magis, sihr

[Lamiyaa_MA]

Salam alaikom everyone,

My question is about sihr (Allah hafad).

It is commonly practiced back home. and i have heard stories from my asian friends.

My question is in regards to a a friend of a friend.

she got married a few months ago,and has still not or can not do the deed with her husband.

she is saying that she does love her husband, but when it come to that thing, they can not do it because she starts trembling, panicking, and shuts off from the world. she pushes her husband away. her family are worried.

Does this sound like sihr, or another word we say in maroc, antakfa.

any advice appreciated.

WS L

[HOUDA-K]

Assalam alaikoum ~ Lamiyaa~

Your friend of a friend has a problem consummating her marriage & this has nothing to with her Sihr.

And this is something that needs to be dealt with sensitively. She needs to be convinced that it is not difficult: and it is meant to be something pleasurable, not painful. Gradual yet sure steps towards consummation will mean that she will experience fulfilment rather than frustration.

My only advise to offer is, after each prayer, tell her to make heart-felt private dua to Allah that He make this matter easy for her . And tell her to consider it an expression of her love for her husband, a fulfilment of her duty as a wife.

Walaikoum Salam

[phylay]

universities are now training psychologists in this domain, she can drop by one of them and talk... might to turn to b helpful

[Sweet_Pea]

[dizzy_wizzy]

anyone remember their first time? it is scary.
all that she needs to know she probably already knows.
just have to take a deep breath and be brave about it.

[hot_diana]

do not come to your women like animal does .
straight on top.



LOL LOL

[HOUDA-K]

Originally posted by coolsimo
I think this will be well answered by married men and women.

Or divorced, separated, or widowed.