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  • radban7767
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    i met him on facebook

    So i have about 4900 friends on Facebook because i network a lot as i am in the real estate business. somehow through a suggested friend list an Algerian guy found me.


    i was married before for 7 years to a Palestinian man,k i am attractive and i have a kid. i think because i speak a little french and Arabic and he saw i was married before to a Arabic guy. i have been to the mid-east many times and lived there Dubai, Beirut...etc...
    i think it peaked his interest. i am not sure.

    never paid much attention to his friend request as he was in Algeria lol. For 4 months he would message me and i would never reply. the last month he got a little more presistent and shot me a message that popped up on me screen in all caps "PLEASE TALK TO ME PLEASE LOL INSHALLAH I AM WAITING".



    from his all caps message i replied "WHAT DO YOU WANT!????" He said "just you and some of your time". so ever since we have been talking for 1 and half month. Skype, pictures, calls, Facebook...i think i am in love lool. he works at a hotel in Algiers and is a chef of some sort. i am 28 he is 27.
    here are my questions: he gets edgy when i ask too many questions. is this typical?
    he is already talking about marriage. i said woooah are you just looking for papers or me? he said no that he doesn't care if we live in Algeria and that he could have pursued less attractive women if he wanted that for more of an actual chance at american papers. what do you guys think? how do i know if he loves me truly? any signs?

    he calls me all the time to say he misses me. he says he feels something for me like a soul mate connection. lol i know this is so corny my skin is crawling lol. however i feel it too. like i know what he is thinking and we "get" each other even though my french is not excellent and his English not the best. he has sent me pics of his family. one thing that concerns me though is that his Facebook shows he was in a relationship just a few months ago and then he put some sad status about breaking up. i asked what happened and he wont talk other than saying she was a party girl. i was like um ok. he wants me to come to Algiers and meet his family.he even spoke with my brother that he really likes me and isnt seeking anything for his benefit.

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  • Sh.Remitti
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    What I should say? I don't know...cause these topics don't really interest me..may be cause I'm young..although people of same age as me talk a lot about those stories...(i'm 18)

    i have just succeeded in BAC exam..so what matters to me is my studies for the time being

    why should i disturb myself by this stuff now

    I'll be back to this thread after 5 years

    ThanX

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  • Mayissa
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    Originally posted by Twilight View Post

    Ok

    Yes I noticed that those previous histories weren't so horrible as I expected

    I'm not biting

    It's just that I don't like this reputation that Algerian guys have of being bad....

    Despite this reputation I noticed that they are very requested by Europeans Girls

    I'm not saying that the are angels neither

    I'll tell you a real story about a handsome guy in the city were I live (told by my husband)

    This young men is handsome and he is living here in Algeria.
    He always practice sport (bodybuilding) and meet European girls (French) on line, he seduce them, then he tells them false stories about his brother who stole his money (that he saved up to travel) so he can't travel to meet them, so the girls who are naive and are so in love with him, propose to help him, he pretend to not accept, then the girls insist and tell him it's just loaning, so he accepts finally

    But in real he's just filling up his bank account, to travel and he has no intention to meet those poor girls, he don't work at all

    Despite of feeling sorry for those girls, but this story made me laugh

    So of course there are malicious Algerian guys

    Even Algerian girls have been deceived by Algerian men and it still happens but really a girl have to be less naive and don't believe every thing men can say to her because he will use every thing to reach his purpose

    I think that Algerian men are more like Italians, they are Casanovas, they like to play with women's feelings but not all of them

    For the girls who said that they have been deceived by Algerians who married them then left them, cause they finally got theirs papers, I feel very sorry for them, it's really a mean thing to do , but as I noticed there are a happy mixed culture marriages too and that's nice

    I am sorry but Algerian Man and Casanova cannot exist in the same sentance

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  • Twilight
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    Originally posted by Al-khiyal View Post
    Salam ya Twilight,

    The thread was requested a long time ago - by Algériennes.

    While a few people seem to become angry at the title, if a careful reading of the thread is done there are actually very few concrete examples of horror stories contained in it - after almost three and a half years.

    Read carefully before biting

    tisbaheen 3ala khair wa fi aman Allah daeman



    Ok

    Yes I noticed that those previous histories weren't so horrible as I expected

    I'm not biting

    It's just that I don't like this reputation that Algerian guys have of being bad....

    Despite this reputation I noticed that they are very requested by Europeans Girls

    I'm not saying that the are angels neither

    I'll tell you a real story about a handsome guy in the city were I live (told by my husband)

    This young men is handsome and he is living here in Algeria.
    He always practice sport (bodybuilding) and meet European girls (French) on line, he seduce them, then he tells them false stories about his brother who stole his money (that he saved up to travel) so he can't travel to meet them, so the girls who are naive and are so in love with him, propose to help him, he pretend to not accept, then the girls insist and tell him it's just loaning, so he accepts finally

    But in real he's just filling up his bank account, to travel and he has no intention to meet those poor girls, he don't work at all

    Despite of feeling sorry for those girls, but this story made me laugh

    So of course there are malicious Algerian guys

    Even Algerian girls have been deceived by Algerian men and it still happens but really a girl have to be less naive and don't believe every thing men can say to her because he will use every thing to reach his purpose

    I think that Algerian men are more like Italians, they are Casanovas, they like to play with women's feelings but not all of them

    For the girls who said that they have been deceived by Algerians who married them then left them, cause they finally got theirs papers, I feel very sorry for them, it's really a mean thing to do , but as I noticed there are a happy mixed culture marriages too and that's nice

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  • Mayissa
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    Originally posted by Al-khiyal View Post
    Salam ya Twilight,

    The thread was requested a long time ago - by Algériennes.

    While a few people seem to become angry at the title, if a careful reading of the thread is done there are actually very few concrete examples of horror stories contained in it - after almost three and a half years.

    Read carefully before biting

    tisbaheen 3ala khair wa fi aman Allah daeman

    hehehehehe...........................but what about the thread "Horror Stories about Algerienne Women"....now that would be fun

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  • Guest 123
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    Salam ya Twilight,

    The thread was requested a long time ago - by Algériennes.

    While a few people seem to become angry at the title, if a careful reading of the thread is done there are actually very few concrete examples of horror stories contained in it - after almost three and a half years.

    Read carefully before biting

    tisbaheen 3ala khair wa fi aman Allah daeman

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  • Twilight
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    Al-Khiyal what's your point with this title " Horror stories about Algerian men" really!!!!

    I see that there are a lot of Algerian's victims

    But really don't generalize it's not a general rule

    there are as bad people as bad Algerians

    European, American, Australian

    All you're stories can happen with other men from other countries

    Even worse stories serial killers, travesty, relations with more than 2 persons all kind of crazy stories

    I'm really tired right now but I'll continue the debate tomorrow

    So good night

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  • Mayissa
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    Originally posted by Al-khiyal View Post
    If we follow your logic, every Algerian government official, every Algerian journalist, every Algerian academic, every Algerian NGO worker, every Algerian police officer, every Algerian doctor, every Algerian social worker, etc., who conducts research on, writes about, publishes or otherwise produces material on social problems in Algeria.....is a Moroccan. And reality becomes 'dirty laundry', the social conditions in Algeria become 'something not to be discussed in public', the Algerian people become 'people to be kept in the dark' and facts established by Algerians about Algerians for Algerians - which are read by, discussed by, and perfectly understood by Algerians - become material for censorship.

    Bon appetit.
    Looooooooooooooooooool

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  • Mayissa
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    Originally posted by silkcut View Post
    i have never say algeria don'y have violence,do not put words into my mouth.and i was not evasive by talking about english hooligans.the subject is violence therefore hooliganism is violence.and do not compare english / algerian.the english cause deaths and stabbings in almost EVERY COUNTRY IN EUROPE(since you are good with details carry on been a gentlemen and tell us the NUMBERS).
    and no i don't ignore the facts that algerian women get battered.what make me sick is when a girl is saying that her algerian boyfriend went out(or try to) with her best friend but JESUS CHRIST that happened every minute everywhere else and nobody interefered to tell her that.make me sick..
    to felicity ELHAMDOULILAH my dad was a man of culture in the movies business and never lifted his hand towards my mum and that reflected on all his children thank god and to put it politely i don't give a toss that you are miss or mississ.i call you miss because it's just an old habit of mine.sorry.
    j'en doute fort,en etalant notre linge sale,que tu sois algerien.une simple question??t'es pas marocain???
    Silkcut darling, domestic violence is a big problem in Algeria, it just goes unspoken about......what a ridiculous thing to have an argument about....there is good and bad everywhere in the world, alhamdullilah your family are respectful that's all there is to say...

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  • Mayissa
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    Originally posted by Tasha View Post
    Can I ask who you are to shut anyone up? So by your last comment I guess you are a man? what are you doing snooping round the woman's corner? Also how do you know if algerian men are better in bed than "white men"? and as for better looking, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am sick and tired of people generalising about people of different nationalities, religions etc. There are good and bad people all over the world no matter their background
    Ahem there are white Algerians you know!! Sheesh............

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  • dumped
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    thanks to everyone for all your support,...yep time has come to definitely learn and move on...

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  • Cheba_Mami
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    Originally posted by BACK2MYROOTS View Post
    I cannot address you as "dumped",
    dear friend

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    I am SO sorry to hear your story. There are bad apples among us, there's no denying that.


    First of all, dear friend, you should 'dump' the name "dumped". You made a mistake, or you were a bit naive or taken advantage of. It does not make you 'dumped trash'!! You still have your dignity and humanity. And, you can fight back and not let him get away with it.

    If I were you, I would report him first thing tomorrow morning. Find out how you can do that and who to contact on the Net, or by contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau. Whatever you do, don't go wobbly in the knees whatever he says from now on. Get rid of him as mercilessly as vermin. He can only get worse in the future.

    He's not even smart enough to know the New Rules of Citizenship [Find out about that]. Please, please, please report him. We do not want to be associated with people like him. He is a disgrace. Get him out of the house and get an injunction to stop him from coming anywhere close to you.

    There are thousands of good people out there. You don't need him. Don't behave like you're desperate. Please be strong and learn from this experience , but do not blame ALL Algerian men. You have had the misfortune to meet the lowest of the lowest. Get him out of this country, you 'll do us all a favour !!!

    Please follow my advice, and let us know the outcome.
    May God/Allah be with you.

    B2MR

    I agree with this posting!

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  • BeeMyBaby
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    even in Algeria you can only marry a second wife if the first wife signs off and agrees to it, so he could never legally do that... He may not be able to get citizenship, but I doubt they would take away his ILR, as its probably more problem for the UKBA than they feel its worth... but I agree with B2MR, that if you are sure you are correct about what he's doing, you really don't need to waste yourself on him. God will deal with him on judgement day.

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  • BACK2MYROOTS
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    He won't get away with it!

    I cannot address you as "dumped",
    dear friend

    ---------------------------------------------------------

    I am SO sorry to hear your story. There are bad apples among us, there's no denying that.


    First of all, dear friend, you should 'dump' the name "dumped". You made a mistake, or you were a bit naive or taken advantage of. It does not make you 'dumped trash'!! You still have your dignity and humanity. And, you can fight back and not let him get away with it.

    If I were you, I would report him first thing tomorrow morning. Find out how you can do that and who to contact on the Net, or by contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau. Whatever you do, don't go wobbly in the knees whatever he says from now on. Get rid of him as mercilessly as vermin. He can only get worse in the future.

    He's not even smart enough to know the New Rules of Citizenship [Find out about that]. Please, please, please report him. We do not want to be associated with people like him. He is a disgrace. Get him out of the house and get an injunction to stop him from coming anywhere close to you.

    There are thousands of good people out there. You don't need him. Don't behave like you're desperate. Please be strong and learn from this experience , but do not blame ALL Algerian men. You have had the misfortune to meet the lowest of the lowest. Get him out of this country, you 'll do us all a favour !!!

    Please follow my advice, and let us know the outcome.
    May God/Allah be with you.

    B2MR

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  • dumped
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    ive been dumped

    Hi just thought i'd share my story with everyone.

    married 3 years to algerian guy, to begin with he with the ultimate gentleman, he treated me like a queen. of course we had our ups and downs but nothing serious.. we married and he came to the uk, and ever since then everything has been great, really, really great...this year he got his permanent visa to stay in the UK, and now things are going wrong, 2 weeks ago out of the blue he started to received letters from france, when i asked about them, he said they are from a 'friend' an old girlfriend, since then we have phone calls where people hang up, texting, just like a teenager. i am supposed to accept this 'friend' but i cant i cant have 3 people in my marriage..it doesn't work..he now wants a second wife, but still wants to stay with me..i can't accept this. I am now having to sell my house, to move on. I think all he ever wanted was the visa to stay here, he never wanted me.. either that or it's a serious mid life crisis..i will never understand why he did this to me.

    please be careful, because yes the majority are sincere men, but as anywhere there are always a few that are not...

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